Baby Blessings from my Archives!

Baby blessings are the sweetest ceremonies! It is such a wonderful gesture for parents to have a ceremony to bless their child and welcome him or her into the world. It is such an honor for me to be asked to preside over these ceremonies and, I love doing them. Some parents choose christening or baptism rituals, others choose anointing--or none of the above. The content and tone of the ceremony is written to fit the beliefs and values of the parents of the baby. Some are religious, some spiritual. Some are baby naming ceremonies. Parents, grandparents, godparents and siblings get to take part in these heart-felt ceremonies. There are readings of all sorts, promises and well wishes for the baby and their families. To get this new blog started, I have compiled all the baby blessings for which I have photos going back to 2001 into one post.

Ryan's Baby Blessing, July 12 2009

On Sunday morning July 12th, we gathered at Lake Wheeler to celebrate the birth of Ryan exactly 4 months prior. It was a beautiful and quiet Sunday morning with a nice breeze off the lake. Both sets of grandparents were present as well as Ryan's god parents. We did the ceremony on the deck under the canopy. The parents and grandparents were in the big rocking chairs flanking me as their family members and friends watched the ceremony.

Misha and Kevin chose to have Ryan baptized and so I did the honors, sealing him in the protection of the Holy Spirit.

I LOVE to cuddle the babies!

Proud parents, Misha and Kevin, with son Ryan.

Father and son!

Ryan's godmother Rachel (dear friend of Misha), Mom Misha,
Dad Kevin, Ryan, and godfather, Scott (Kevin's brother).

I was honored to be a part of Ryan's celebration!

Zoe's Baby Blessing, June 28, 2009

On Sunday June 28th, I arrived at the home of Zoe, almost 2 months old, and her parents, Marni and Michael, and older brother Zachary. The ceremony took place in their front yard since it was such a beautiful day.

Zoe had a hard time staying awake during the ceremony!
It was her nap time too! Here are her Mom, Dad and Grandpa Joe!

Zoe did not seem to notice when I touched her head with water for the baptism.
I think it must feel natural to all babies!

Zoe's maternal grandparents, Joe (center) and Anne (right), traveled from Corning, NY, for the occasion. So did Marni's sister, Katie (left), who is not only Zoe's aunt but also her godmother. Zachary was so wired up for the occasion, we barely got him to slow down long enough for me to ask him if he promised to be the best big brother to Zoe that he could be! Of course, he said he would.

Katie was truly amazing and inspiring and I so admire her. She is recovering from ovarian cancer stage III and has done so well. She is giving back to all who gave to her by volunteering her services and inspiration to other cancer survivors. She was tearful through most of the sweet ceremony for Zoe. All the best to all of you!

Please indulge me! Here are more of "my babies!!"

Alyssa--9/23/06

Xavian - 9/6/03 - with his parents, Anthony and Stacey, in my garden.

Savannah Grace - 10/14/07

Rocco Anthony and his godmothers! 1/8/06


Phillip Dylan - 12/9/07

Paul Andrews- 10/7/07

Oliver Kay 3/30/08

I married Oliver's parents, Genevieve and Bernard, and performed a baby blessing ceremony for his older sister, Lauren, in 2005. I don't have a photo of Lauren. Must not have had my camera with me that day.

We added sand for each child to the sand we poured during their parents' wedding in 2003.

Nina Simone - ceremony 9/4/05.

Makayla Rae - ceremony 1/21/07

I married Nina Simone and Makayla's parents, Anne Marie and Sean, on 5/29/04 at Crenshaw Hall. We did a sand ceremony at their wedding and at the baby blessings, we added sand for each child.

Madyson Noel - 3/2/08

I married Madyson's parents, Kimberly and Trevor, on 6/19/05.

Connor Elliot - 12/28/02

Carlie Reigh - 2/3/08

Emma-Brooks - 6/16/07

Gillian Lee - 11/2/03

Twins!! Eva Joy and John Martin - 7/6/03

Jacob Allen - 7/14/01
This was the very first baby blessing I did. I was so nervous! I married Jacob's parents, Pete and Gretchen, in February of 2000 at St. Mary's College but have no photos of their wedding.

Ava Joy - 8/26/07

Baby Blessing for Cullen and Evan!

March 22, 2009

When Marty and I arrived last Saturday morning for the ceremony, I was greeted by Jen who told me that my niece had done the wedding ceremony for her and Hadley in RI. At first I did not get the connection then it hit me all of a sudden! Lisa was the bride whose sister lived in RI who needed a minster and I referred them to Nancy. Now it all connected in my mind! What a small world!! A synchronicity! So, I was just even more delighted to do this wonderful baby blessing for these sisters and their sons who are first cousins. They both remarked how much Nancy and I look alike and that is so true. We get accused of being sisters when we are together, which unfortunately is not often because of the distance between Raleigh and Cape Cod. I actually mentored Nancy in becoming a wedding minister. Go have a look yourself at her website.

The baby blessing ceremony went well despite lots of busy little ones running around! I have learned through the years just to plow on through the ceremony though. The parents gave their pledges to their children and we recognized their godparents. Lisa and Eugene got out the Unity Circle they had stood in for their wedding, redecorated it and stood inside it with Anthony and the baby as they made their parental promises to Cullen. Each person there dropped a rose petal into pure spring water for each baby and then I sprinkled their heads. Funny, babies don't mind at all my putting water on their heads and never fuss! They were both so adorable. It was good to see Lisa's parents once again too--that makes 3 times over the past several years--the wedding and two baby blessings. I feel like I am part of the family.

I married Lisa and Eugene several years ago at the Preston Woodall House in Benson--here is a photo of us on their wedding day. Later Lisa contacted me and told me that her sister, Jen, was getting married in Rhode Island and could I refer her to a minister there to officiate for them. Turns out my husband's niece, Rev. Nancy Wurlitzer, lives in Cape Cod and was most happy to officiate for Jen and Hadley since Providence was not that far from the Cape. In 2005 Lisa and Eugene told me they had a baby boy, Anthony, and asked me to perform a baby blessing for him which I did. We included the grandparents and godparents in the ceremony that took place in their home in Garner and Jen was Anthony's godmother and Jason, the best man in their wedding, was his godfather--see photo. A couple of months ago Lisa emailed me that they had a second son, Cullen, born last October and wanted to have a baby blessing ceremony for him too. We set the date of March 21 and started working on the ceremony they wanted. Then Lisa told me that her sister had a baby son born last September and although they live in Pennsylvania, they wanted to come to North Carolina that weekend and include their son, Evan, in the baby blessing ceremony, and if that was okay with me. I told her "of course" and that I had done double baby blessings before and had recently done one for babies who were first cousins.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Baptism and Blessing for Joshua Charles!

Valerie contacted me to find out if I could perform a baby blessing/baptism ceremony for her baby, Joshua Charles, on 1/31/09 at St. Mark's Chapel. I was delighted to do this for Valerie and her husband, John, to celebrate the birth and entrance into this world of their son last October. Together we designed a ceremony that expressed what they wanted and fit their beliefs. When I arrived for the ceremony, I spotted Kimberly and Wes, a couple I married in 2006 at the Long View Center, who were friends of Valerie and John, and were there with their sweet little 3 week old daughter, Natalie. Here is a photo of them--too bad the sunlight was beaming in behind them for the photo! Natalie was precious and maybe we will do a blessing ceremony for her in the near future. It was good to see them again!

When everyone had arrived the ceremony began and Joshua actually appeared to be very attentive, even dropped his pacifier and did not seem to notice as he was raptly following my every word! Oh, sure! He was so cute. Valerie wrote a special poem for him for this occasion which she recited during the ceremony. His Godparents, Cheryl and David, read a delightful poem by Dr. Seuss called "Oh the Places You Will Go!" His grandmothers held roses representing their love and dedication to him and placed them in a vase of water during the ceremony. We all had a great time welcoming him into this community of family and friends.

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Baby Blessing Ceremony for First Cousins--Amanda and Caelen!

On New Year's Eve 2006, I married Michele and Michael at a wonderful wedding at the Butterfly House located at the Museum of Life and Science in Durham. It was a great ceremony and included Michael's son, Shane, who enjoyed pouring his sand in the family unity sand ceremony. I have done several ceremonies at the Butterfly House. They are quite unique and special.

Michele contacted me in August of this year to tell me the wonderful news that she and Michael had a new baby girl, Amanda, born 5/31/08 and wondered if I remembered marrying them. Of course I did! They wanted me to do a baby blessing and baptism ceremony for Amanda so we set a date and started working on the ceremony that would fit their beliefs. Later on, Michele wrote and asked me if we could include her little nephew, Caelen, who was born on 7/28/08, to her sister Jennifer and her husband Kevin. I said sure! I had done a a couple of baby blessing ceremonies in the past for two children at the same time--one was for twins and the other was for cousins. No problem. So, we modified the ceremony to include Caelen.

I arrived at the Main Street Park in Rolesville on Saturday September 27th for the ceremony at the gazebo. Michael and his father were setting up for the ceremony. It was a beautiful setting! It was good to see not only Michael and Michele and Shane again but also their parents and Jennifer. I met Kevin and his parents and the two babies for the first time of course! Shane was feeling a bit shy that day, unlike his peppy eager self at their wedding! But, I got him in one picture--the one of Michele holding Amanda--that is Shane is in the background looking happy the ceremony was all over! In the group photo, Michael, Michele and Amanda are on the left and Jennifer, Kevin and Caelen are on the right. The babies were so sweet and quiet during the ceremony--always a blessing! We added pink sand for Amanda to her parents' and Shane's wedding sand and included the children's grandparents in a rose ceremony. It was a well planned and fun occasion!

Monday, May 12, 2008

A Baby Blessing Ceremony for Langdon!

Amanda and Michael planned a gathering of family and close friends to welcome their nine month old baby boy, Langdon, into the world on Sunday May 11th. We all gathered on the patio outside--the rain had let up and the sun was shining. All of Langdon's grandparents ( Charles, Sandra, Robert and Eleanor)were present and even his great grandmother Katherine was with us for the special occasion. Unfortunately his great grandfather Chick passed away in February but he was with us in spirit. As part of the ceremony of celebration we all dropped flower petals infused with our blessings for Langdon into a bowl of spring water which I then placed drops of water on his head blessing him for all of us. We said in unison "Langdon, we love you, we appreciate you, and we bless you always.”

Then we passed Langdon around for some great pictures of the special occasion. He was so contented and did not fuss at all! God bless you, Langdon!